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Julie Telfer Email
13/06/09

Are you parent carer or professional? carer

How did you find us? via advocacy services

County or area Gwent

Comments:

Our 21 year old son has severe autism and associated sensory difficulties, profound learning disabilities (estimated at 1 year), life-threatening challenging behaviour and epilepsy.  We have fought for his right to receive services throughout his life, i.e. schooling, respite, education, safe accommodation, day services, etc; and in 2006 he was assessed for Continuing Care. 

As Christopher now comes under health and not social services jurisdiction it has been a long battle to secure a day placement and it has meant that the LHB has had to develop a service specifically for him.  Regardless of the severity of our son’s challenging behaviour, since his assessment, it has also meant that the service cannot only be made available to him on a ‘good behaviour basis’ and protective clothing has been purchased through the NHS Trust via the LHB to ensure staff safety.

Having previously had complaints upheld by the Ombudsman against The LA (for inconsistent respite) and additional complaints upheld (regarding transitional failure) against The LA, The LHB and The NHS Trust it has made me realise that there is a huge gap between health and social services departments.  There are little, if any services, available for those who present with severe challenging behaviour (who come under social services jurisdiction) and they are then denied services or have services withdrawn.  Similarly, health does not typically develop day services for its clients.  So, what of the service users whose needs are too complex for social services to meet, but are not so severe as to come under health jurisdiction?  Surely, the departments should be working together to ensure that ALL service users receive a service to which they are entitled?

 

 

 


Kuldip Gadhvi Email
18/04/09

Are you parent carer or professional? Professional

How did you find us? Google

County or area Warwickshire

Comments:
Hello all,
I found this website very useful and helped me quite a lot to implement some approaches with people I work.

I personally believe we all are Challenging at some point and all aggression calms down at one stage. Now we need to work out on Factors which may help people to calm down quicker.. Try to Think from Their level of thinking.. You'll find the best way to keep them Happy" That's it.

Thanks"
Kuldip

Linda Schembri 
17/04/09

Are you parent carer or professional? parent

How did you find us? internet

County or area london

Comments:
need help with 24yr old autisitic son with his CONSTANT noise  screaming and banging.feel like I am going mad.


Jo Email
09/04/09

Are you parent carer or professional? Parent

How did you find us? by searching definition of challenging behaviour for DLA appeal

County or area London UK

Comments:
Hi,
My daughter is almost 12 years old with SLD, very limited language skills and severe epilepsy, arising from Infantile Spasms/cortical dysplasia.  She attends SEN day school.  We are currently in appeal with DWP against their decision of mobility component of DLA (they say she now only qualifies for lower but we say she should qualify for higher as she did for the past 5years).  They say she has some mental problems and some behavioural problems but not enough to meet their criteria as SMI with unpredictable challenging behaviour, despite us providing many letters/reports from school/medical.  At school she has 1;1 (even in SEN school) but mainly due to her epilepsy as her behaviour is not as bad when she has constant support and attention.  But her behaviour towards me particularly has included many times being physically attacked/wrecking the inside of car whilst I'm driving, as well as self harming, throwing items of all sizes, hitting out, dropping to floor, screaming etc witnessed by many. The behaviour is not constant i.e. she can happily sit and watch TV when she wants to, but it is hugely unpredictable, making going out especially a huge strain.
Any suggestions regarding appeal greatly received.
Jo
PS Just realised I have to leave email to get response LOL



Jo 
09/04/09

Are you parent carer or professional? Parent

How did you find us? by searching definition of Challenging Behaviour

County or area London UK

Comments:
Hi,
My daughter is almost 12 years old with SLD, very limited language skills and severe epilepsy, arising from Infantile Spasms/cortical dysplasia.  She attends SEN day school.  We are currently in appeal with DWP against their decision of mobility component of DLA (they say she now only qualifies for lower but we say she should qualify for higher as she did for the past 5years).  They say she has some mental problems and some behavioural problems but not enough to meet their criteria as SMI with unpredictable challenging behaviour, despite us providing many letters/reports from school/medical.  At school she has 1;1 (even in SEN school) but mainly due to her epilepsy as her behaviour is not as bad when she has constant support and attention.  But her behaviour towards me particularly has included many times being physically attacked/wrecking the inside of car whilst I'm driving, as well as self harming, throwing items of all sizes, hitting out, dropping to floor, screaming etc witnessed by many. The behaviour is not constant i.e. she can happily sit and watch TV when she wants to, but it is hugely unpredictable, making going out especially a huge strain.
Any suggestions regarding appeal greatly received.
Thanks Jo
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