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Angela 
Yesterday at 11:41 PM

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I am so so so so so sorry.
I cried the whole time, right when i walked in, til` i walked out

shaina♥jaycie 
Yesterday at 11:40 PM

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Dear Mr.Haligan.
We are both very sorry about the loss of your son.
Don`t always look on the dark side, i know your really sad. But you have 2 other children that are still growing up.
Ryan threw away his life for nothing, he had no idea what he was going to miss.
Life is a presious thing, that cant be replaced.
Never ever listen to your son/daughter when they tell you to do something you really need to do (ect. when ryan told you not to go and embaress him infront of the principal)
Your program made me really sad, i couldnt stop thinking about what you said for the next 24 hours.
Bullying is something that wont be stopped for a while, you need to keep going around and speeching your speeches
 

 

Ally 
Yesterday at 09:30 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan, I was at the summit for cyber bullying last February at Eric Smith Middle School. You also came to Ramapo Ridge Middle School after becuase we asked you to. I know you probably here this everyday all the time but you should know one more time that you touched me and everyone on the student council. It is an honor to know that you are brave enough to talk to so many people about cyberbullying after everything that has gone on. Please try to email back if you can. Reace Ally


James 
Yesterday at 08:39 PM

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Mr and Mrs Harrigan,

  Thank you for caring, and for fighting against bullying. I, too was bullied in school, and I really hated it. It as wubtle, though, and the teachers never caught on.
  I pray for you, and hope you keep up your work.

James

robbie paeprer 
Yesterday at 08:14 PM

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Dear mr halligan


      You cam to my school on 11/20/09 i  will never forget what had happened to you in your past life your story was so sad it made me think of when people used to bully me i hope the besst for you and your family.



Franklin avenue middle school

Rachel 
Yesterday at 06:56 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,
   I am soo sorry for your loss. When you came to my school and spoke their wasn't one person who didn't have tears in their eyes. I think it's wonderful for you to be able to take something so awful and turn it into something that saved other people's lives! You inspired me so much, Thank you!



caitlin  
Yesterday at 05:11 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,

When I heard that there was a sad assembly coming up, I didn't want to go.  It is very easy to make me cry. But if i hadn't listened to your son's story, my heart wouldn't have been touched the way it did. I have to say that you are one of the bravest men to ever walk the Earth. Thank you so much for every heart you have touched, and for all of the teenage lives you have changed, and, or saved.


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Casey Eberhardt 
Yesterday at 03:40 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,
   I had read the story about Ryan and am very sorry, but I didn't come to the website for help, I came because even if I didn't know your son I can tell he was a great kid and that he could have done amazing things.Don't forget that.

Brendan  
Yesterday at 03:31 PM

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 Dear Mr.Halligan,

        I just want to thank you again for coming to my school today and talking to my fellow peers and I about Ryans story. It was tough at first to understand or even believe, but then it sank in that things like this really do happen to kids. It is sad that none of the bystanders even react to what is happening, let alone try to help. This story opened my eyes to what really happens to kids that get bullied and I am going to make sure that the next time I see someone getting bullied in anyway,  am going to make sure that I am not going to be a bystander and that I am going to help out in any way possible. Once again thank you very much and your son will always be in my prayers.
            From,
         Brendan at FAMS

Chatham Middle School Student 
11/19/09 at 05:56 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,
     When I heard that you were going to come to my school to teach my friends and I about teen suicide, I thought it was going to be another one of those boring assemblies that no one remebers. I was wrong. That assembly really touched me and many people in that room. Obviously, I have never met Ryan but I believe that he must have been a very strong brave person because he had a very strong brave father. He's lucky and so are you. I'd really like to thank you for helping my classmates and I learn about teen suicide. On Tuesday, I think I learned one of the greatest lessons ever. You really touched my soul and I'm gald you came. You have changed my way of thinking and I hope you know that I wish I had the chance to meet Ryan, he sounds like a great kid. Ryan is in my prayers and so are you, Kelly, Megan, and Connor. Thank you for teaching my school about teen suicide. I credit you and I'm proud of you. I was truely touched by your presentation and it changed my life thank you...
                                                    -A very luck CMS student
                                                   

Yanna  
11/19/09 at 05:21 PM

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today you visited our school, Anthony Wayne Middle School. i can honestly say you have changed and touched almost all of us. after the assembly all of us were quite. and in our head we were all thinking about you and Ryan. in our next class we barely talked. i am so sorry for your loss.. and i think you are an extremely brave man to come up and talk to us.. and share such a personal story because you want to help us and prevent another situation like this. Ryan will always have a place in my heart, god bless you and your family.

                                                                                       Love,
                                                                                              Yanna Alexa


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ariel and nadia 
11/19/09 at 04:43 PM

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When our class heard that story there was a lot of sad faces and tears. The whole class went quiet. it was so sad that people were bullying Ryan like that and all the things they said were really awful. Bullying has got to stop, especially cyberbullying. Lot's of kids have killed theirselfs because of what somebody has said. If everbody would just not say a word to people they don't like, the world would be a better place.


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A G.W. Student 
11/19/09 at 03:58 PM

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Mr. Halligan,
 
Thank you so much for visiting my school. Your story changed my life, aa well as the lives of other students. It was very touching, and you are very, very brave for being able to talk about the tragedy. I want you to know that our school will always remember your story, and that we will never forget. You touched our hearts, and that mark will never vanish.

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Hope  
11/19/09 at 01:42 PM

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Thank you so much for visiting Whitehall Coplay High school. I think you truly changed some peoples lives in this school. And i also thank you for making that difference. Not many people can touch a souls heart like you did that day.I would just like to say that, you must have really gained a lot of strength through these few years , to present a tragedy of not just anyone, but in particular your son. That is the hardest thing that anyone can do, is talk about how the actions of others effected the life of your son.  Your son was a strong, and was a strong boy. His memory will stay in my heart forever and i will continue to pray for him and your family everyday. God Bless.


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M. Stroda 
11/18/09 at 10:17 PM

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I know this happened years ago, but I am sure the feelings of loss never go away. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and other families who have gone through this.

kyle schroeder-feyrer 
11/18/09 at 09:47 PM

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dear mr.Halligan
your speach was very touching to me. I was very sad though because ryan looked like a very nice kid and really did not deserve it and no kid should. Although i have never gotten bullyd mch i have freinds that do, and i always stand up for them. i think its so sad that ryan did not have a person to stand up to the bully. Your speach will never be forgotten and neither will you.




rest in peace ryan we will all miss you

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yeaseul CMS 
11/18/09 at 07:50 PM

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hi you came to our school yesterday, and i really appreciate you coming and being able to talk to us about ryan. i was touched by your speech and i hope you help many kids realize about the topic and kids that are stuggling with suicide. i know that everyone in our school will always love ryan even though we havent meet him. after your speech in the auditorium, after school, my friend and i came up to hug you. i really enjoyed doing that. it seemed like you were happy that we did. again, i am so glad that you came to our school to tell us about ryans story. thank you!


bubbles 
11/18/09 at 07:18 PM

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hi u were at my school a couple of days ago and u have truly touched me my own brother was gone in a flash and i know how much it hurts and ur story has reallly touched me i havent bin able to talk about much but hearing u showed me that there r others also going through the grief i know ryan willl be loved foreva
best of luck<3
Camille CMS 
11/18/09 at 07:05 PM

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I was touched by your speech a couple of days ago and at moments I even began crying. Your speech will never be forgotten at CMS! I hope you realize even though CMS students never actually met Ryan he will forever be in our hearts and in our
minds. He will always remind students that bulleying is a serious problem and that it has serious consequences. You are so brave for traveling to schools and explaining Ryan's story. I wish you and your family the best, it has been a long and hard road but you and your family will make it. No matter what never forget that it wasn't you or your families fault!

:'( Camille
bcms sudent 
11/18/09 at 07:01 PM

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I am so sorry what happened to Ryan i felt what you were talking about today at our assembly and i have been get bullied ever since third grade and I am 6th grade and my parents also have the same password thing in our family once again I am so sorry

justin scott 
11/18/09 at 07:00 PM

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I am so sorry what happened to Ryan i felt what you were talking about today at our assembly and i have been get bullied ever since third grade and I am 6th grade and my parents also have the same password thing in our family once again I am so sorry

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CMS Student <3 
11/18/09 at 04:13 PM

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Mr Halligan,

I am so sorry for your loss and i would just like to say that you are the most brave man i have ever met (even though i haven’t formally met you). I dont know if you can tell from my note i am writing you but i have dyslexia and ADD and ADHD. And i understand why ryan would be so sad and sad enough to leave the world of middle school and mean kids. Even though chatham is a nice friendly and quite little town the girls and guys here...can be evil. For example: There is one boy in my life now that is bugging the heck out of me and once or twice he has made me go into the next room and i cry. But thanks to your amazing speech and your kind words he hasnt bothered me since and he is now alot nicer to me when i see him. I dont think i could ever trust him again but at least i dont have to come home crying to my mom telling her about why i had such a bad day. Mr Halligan you have touched my heart and everyone elses at CMS. God bless you and i now that god id blessing Ryan.

CMS Student
 
sorry i had to add these so I Know It's Mine
 


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judy 
11/18/09 at 11:52 AM

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Dear Mr Halligan: I was thoroughly impressed with and inspired by your presentation at the Chatham NJ middle school.  Inasmuch as I've so often wondered what I could do to prod our youth away from suicide, these community speeches are so worth our time and I'll pass the word along the best I can through your pamphlets. I'd like you to do your presentation at two schools near us it it's at all possible: Copeland middle school in Rockaway Twsp NJ and Randolph Middle school in Randolph NJ if you haven't done them already. I'll help if I can. You are a Special Family passing along your Angel's story to us, I and so many others thank you. 


CMS Parent 
11/17/09 at 11:01 PM

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Mr. Halligan,

As the mother of a child with learning a learning disability, I can relate to the challenges that learning disabled children have in their day to day lives.  But, I cannot begin to imagine the pain and sadness that you and your family have suffered.

However, from this tragedy, you have found the strength and courage to share Ryan's story over and over again.  His story is making a difference.  It's opening the eyes of our children and teaching them that their words and actions really do have consequences. 

Although some have heard their parent's lecture about living their life out there on the internet for everyone to see, sometimes it takes an outsider to really get thru to them.  I think that by sharing Ryan's story, you have done exactly that. 

Thank you for coming into our lives, for giving us a glimpse into Ryan's life.  He was a beautiful boy with his whole life in front of him.  I'm so sorry that his life was cut short.   My deepest heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.

Continue to stay strong and know that you are making a difference!! 

CMS Parent

Erin O'Connor 
11/17/09 at 09:56 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,
I have to give you credit for your story today. It takes real guts to tell your familys horrible actsedent to toldal stranggers. you told use the truth about how you were felling, you wanted to let us know that your not afriad to share this to people you don't know. I was very touched by what happend, and am awemzed how well you kept your composure. You let people ask questions and let them know that there was a line that they couldn't cross. Your son like he was a great guy, I know if I knew him that I would have been his friend and stuck up for him. I hope that nothing else happens to it. So keep spread this to more children. So I wish the best of luck to you and your family. Thank you so much for garthering up you coarge and talking to us.

Catherine 
11/17/09 at 09:04 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,

Thank you for sharing your story today about your son Ryan's tragedy. You taught us how much bullying can affect people's lives and wrong it is. I am so sorry for your loss of Ryan and I will say a pray for him. You are such a brave man for telling this story.

Catherine Daniher



Tina 
11/17/09 at 08:57 PM

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Mr. Halligan,

Thank you for coming to Smith School in Ramsey.  To suffer such a horrific loss and share your story in the hope of saving lives is truly heroic.  Both my children were deeply moved by your presentation as was I. You are making a difference.   Nothing will ever heal the pain of losing a child, but may it be some comfort to you and your wife that Ryan's death was not in vain. With your help his story is helping save others and preventing more suicides.  May it also be a comfort to you that Ryan is in heaven and you will be reunited one day. God bless you and your family.


Tommy Flynn 
11/17/09 at 08:56 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,
    The presentation was terrific! Ryan must have been bullied alot. I am so sorry Ryan died because of it. Today I learned that I shouldn't pick on other people. It is wrong and can lead to suicide. Thank you for telling me and my classmates the story of Ryan.
                                           From,
                                          Tommy Flynn
 

A CMS Student 
11/17/09 at 08:52 PM

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Mr Halligan

Thank you so much for coming to our school. I was moved by your presentation to the point I was in tears and leaning upon my friend's arm. I know how much courage it took for you to speak to us today and I greatly appreciate that. As for Ryan, may he rest in peace and I'm sure he knows what you are doing and how many people love him. Thanks Again.

A Student At CMS


David Flynn 
11/17/09 at 08:50 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,
      I saw your presentation today at CMS it was great. I feel so sad to hear that your son died because of bullying. I learned that bullying can get so severe that it can become suicidal. I was holding in tears. Thank you so much for making that speech, it was amazing.
                                 From,
                                 David Flynn


Morgan 
11/17/09 at 08:12 PM

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Dear Mr. Halligan,
Thank you so much for coming to our school today, you touched many hearts, and I'm sure you opened many people's eyes to the reality of bullying. I'm soooo sorry about Ryan's death, it was a true tragedy. May god love and care for Ryan, because that boy deserves it. I can't imagine what your family has gone through, and CMS is so grateful you shared your story with us, that took a lot of courage and strength. Rest in Peace Ryan Halligan.

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Kaitlyn 
11/17/09 at 07:42 PM

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Mr. Halligan,
My friends and I are very grateful that you came to our school, CMS and told us about your loss. We are all sad for you and your family. Your story was very touching and I most definitely learned something today. I hope that you recover well and your family and will teach people you speak too. 

Nicholas Milich 
11/17/09 at 07:08 PM

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Thanks for cuming to my school.
What I took away from you story is that daling sum wan cold led that kid of the deep end .In your story the dules are not the cool wasns you sun was
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