Whether you're a wife, an ex-wife, a girlfriend or fiance, chances are more than likely that you're either dealing with or have dealt with some guy's crap.
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So, I have been on vacation since 6/26/09 and we have not left the house except to get dog food. He has been his usual downer self with the self sacrificing shit. Picking on my kids and nasty ass comments. Threaten to call the police and have us thrown out, 7 days of hell.
My youngest was hit by a car on her bike last week and I have been running to doctors, plastic surgeons, orthopedic surgeons, dentists etc. You think the fucking asshole would have an ounce of compassion for me.
Anyway, there was a few bands playing at a festival and we were going to go. I asked him to stop the crap and comments at least 100 times so we could have a good time.
As soon as we get in the car the bullshit starts. Your kid took 2 showers and he gets everything for free. Free hot water and you suck his balls. I got out of the car and left his ass behind. I hope he's fucking miserable all night.
07/02/09
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I work so hard and when i out in my paycheck more than half of it goes to the negative balance.
I'm so depressed , life sucks I just want to crawl in a hole and die, but I have kids. I have to be strong and try to trudge on througth the shit he puts us through . I wish I was strong , I'm so far away from anyone who gives a damn about me . I'm stuck and don't know how to get out .
07/02/09
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Rachel - You rock! You give hope to those of us who feel trapped and still stay. It's like prison and knowing someone made it over the wall and is actually liking the outside!
07/02/09
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I left him... I have lived alone for two mo... This is much better!!!
07/01/09
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And I haven't gotten my hair cut since the beginning of December, because he constantly tells me "we can't afford it", but his stupid ass goes out and spends his $20 a week, and also goes out and spends money on beer, and chew, and xbox live points. I can't get a fucking haircut, but you can buy some stupid ass plane on your xbox??? WTF is that?!?! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!
07/01/09
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This is my first time on this site!
Here's my sob story, I guess:
We've been together for 8 1/2 years, married for 2, and have 2 amazing daughters, ages 7 years, and the other is 5 months. He rarely spends time with them. Never bathes them, makes dinner, put them to bed, or get them up in the morning. I do absolutely everything. I work a full time job, come home take care of the house and kids. In the morning I get everyone ready, including him!!! I make the car payment and insurance, yet he keeps the car. His stepdad is his boss at work, so my husband shows up late everyday, knowing we're financially strapped right now. He buys $20 of smoke every week, sometimes more. He just sits in the bathroom with his computer all night, from 6pm-1am, that's where you'll find him. We had a huge fight last night. He says I don't give him enough sex (we do it a few times a week). When we do have sex, he's bored with it, even though we do it his way. He was screaming in my face last night and when I told him to go away, he slammed his beer bottle on the counter so hard that he broke the beer bottle and the counter, and his entire bottle of beer sprayed all over me, including in my eyes! I'm glad the kids weren't home. He never apologized. He just told me I deserved it because of what a bitch I am. He calls me every name you can think of. He constantly talks about this skinny girl he works with. Even though he says he hates her, he always talks about what she was wearing that day. I'm not stupid, I know what that means. He doesn't trust me, for some reason, and constantly accuses me of cheating on him, which I'm not and have never done. I don't know what to do, sometimes I hate him!
07/01/09
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I wish you were dead. You evil fucking bitch. You cut my child support.
06/30/09
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LOL!! Thanks Ex!!! That's exactly what I'll tell him!
06/29/09
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Dear Men suck,
Well put.
06/28/09
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That is all it is ever about. Money. Women get trapped because they don't have enough money to get the hell out. It is all part of our male dominated society. Men make more money than women do, even if they do the same job. Men have bigger muscles than women do so they can beat the shit out of us if we have the nerve to try and escape. No wonder they are such assholes. They have all the power, they always have, and maybe (I sure hope not) always will.
06/28/09
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WOW SIck&TIRED your husband sounds a lot like mine. I feel stuck COMPLETELY. I have a baby and another on the way. I think Im just keeping the baby so my daughter can have a sibling then IM OFFICIALLY DONE. I dont work and i dont have my own money. I would love to go back to school or work again but have no one to watch my baby and i know my husband would give me a lot of shit and throw it in my face that he is paying for school. I just realized my husband has been spending a lot of his money on pot this makes me mad. I dont care that he smokes, but it bothers me that he spends so much money on it. im pissed he gets to do what he wants when he wants and me i get shit for anything i do. He went off on me this morning because he says i feed the stupid goldfish too much. I mean he went insane, and then called me names and it just got ugly, the two minutes later he comes in the room to kiss me bye and tell me i love you before work. Im so upset and hurt by him, and he easily says i love you and walks out and im left feeling like crap all day. Later after work he gets home i see him for about 30 mins. i take a nap and he wakes me to tell me hes going out with his buddy. I wake up from my nap call him doesnt answer at 1 am call again doesnt answer, its about to be 2 a.m. NO ANSWER. If i ever go out, which i get shit for all the time, if i go out im always back by 12 to be respectful of him, and thats when married coulples i believe should be back home. he doesnt care doesnt answer, comes back when he wants. ugh i want a divorce but cant afford that shit. SO STRESSED AND SO UNHAPPY WITH MY MARRIAGE ITS SO HARD TO SAY I LOVE YOU, and i feel like hes just good for paying the bills, but money cant buy you love.
06/28/09
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Hi Ladies....just poppin' in to say hi & hang in there (or get out!!!) You all deserve better!
06/28/09
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Hey I'm Done....
Tell that asswipe that BONES ARE FOR DOGS!!! Women are supposed to have curves!
06/28/09
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WTF! Tell me to lay off the desert 'cause I'm going ta get fatter then I already am!! Fat? Funny, dick head! You were there when the doc said I was underweight! What the hell! You wanna anorexic wife? Your so freaking stressful I can hardly eat half the time! so what if I had a piece of your Dads birthday cake! Just because you look like a stick man doesn't mean I have to be your stick woman! Some men like a little T&A on a chick! Stop being such a dick! If you don't want me the way I am then get the f*ck out! I'm not gonna spend anymore time sick and worried about what you want or what you think anymore! And don"t f*cking ask me to rub your nasty old feet again! Or to cook you dinner, or wash your clothes, or clean up after your drunk ass! See, at this point I wouldn't even pee down your throat if your guts were on fire! Why don't you go ask your mommy to rub your poor sore feet! Or better yet, go ask your ex girlfriend to clean up your mess since you seem to want her back soo bad! WTF Dickhead! Just leave me alone!
06/27/09
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If you don't love me anymore then there is no reason for me to put up with your shit anymore.
I am done with this drama. I will fight fair if you do.
Give me the things that are rightfully mine or I will fight for them by any means necessary.
Leave my son out of it and I will leave yours out of it.
Pay your share of insurance or I will cancel you off of it.
I have finally HAD ENOUGH.
06/27/09
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Now the wimp says he doesn't love me anymore and is taking my vehicle so I can't get to work. Drags my son into it. He takes so many oxycontins that he doesn't think straight. Won't do anything the Drs say to help himself. Just lays there. Drinks coke all day long even though the Dr says not to due to kidney stones.
06/25/09
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Hubby is just an ADD ass from hell. He starts a something, gets pissed because it takes "work" and then throws it down to move on to the next obsession. My whole house is filling up with his bullshit obsessions and the back yard looks like some trailer trash redneck had his way with it. Junk, half finished projects and crap everywhere.
Today he got pissed because he had to mow the damned lawn while I was working at my job.
Well Booo Fucking hooo ya damned baby. He did such a half-assed job that it now looks like a maniac goat on acid ran around the yard. He missed big clumps everywhere and it looks like shit. He also got pissed at the dog because she got in the way and he KICKED her! She yelped and limped around for an hour and is now hiding in my office again (not the first time he has done this).
I am never going to ask again. I'll just do it myself just like everything else. I guess I can work my 60 hour a week job and also do the chores around the house so the porn king can stroke in front of his computer or play with one of his other obsessions all day. Asshole. I hate you. Would you PLEASE just fucking die or leave. I don't care which, just get the hell away from me.
06/25/09
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Oh yah, another thing....
My friken husband was online looking at porn last nite. That shit pissed me the hell off. Then, he had the f...kin nerve to ask me to shake my ass for him like them bitches he was lookin at. What the f..k is his damn problem? What kinda shit is that! Who the hell do these sonofabitch men think we are, some damn hookers/strippers. What is it with these f..kin men, that they want us to be the "other" bitch. He already has an obession with watching porn videos, now he wants to me to act shit out for him like them dirty bitches he watches. This shit is insane! So if I do that dumb shit for him, then all that makes me is one of those dirty ass bitches....right! Fuck that shit, fuck him, fuck what he stand for, and fuck me for marrying his fuckin ass.!!!
06/25/09
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I am married to "Hell" itself...What ever happened to that nice,sweet,gentleman,caring,loving man that I fell in love with years ago. Where the F... did he go? Next thing you know I am living with a straight up Muther F...er. I am starting to hate my husband so darn much I am sick & tired. Now Im beginning to wonder if I am the dumbass married to this asshole. He is extremely jealous that it drives me insane. He is extraordinarily controlling which I can't stand. He is so damn serious and mean, has no sense of humbleness. He is a nagging, complaining, won't shut the f...k up bitch (and I thought wives are the ones who nag and complain). He is not a fair person. He nitpicks at every damn thing. He is a walking time bomb. He is the devil's son in the flesh- I shit you not. He can do what he wants, when he wants, and go whereever he wants....but when I do it~> he makes an issue of it. All he wants is a bitch he can boss around and step all over...I guess I am the dumb bitch putting up with him cause I have no choices.
Nowhere to go, noone to help me, and no job or money to help myself. So he takes advantage of my hopelessness and makes me feel like I am stuck. So I am trying to set myself some goals....I went back to school. I am beginning my second year studying as an RN. This is the one thing in my life I am proud of and he is trying to crush me. I am sticking to my guns with college(its never too late) and trying my hardest to get somewhere. Sometimes life can get the best of you, it has me...but I wont give up on myself, no matter how much my husband wants me to fail.
06/24/09
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Forsaken Wife....Thank you. Hes been itching for a long time. Men never grow up, they just grow old
06/24/09
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Jessi - sounds to me like your jerk of a husband is just itching to split - but holding out for a reason to blame it on you instead of him. Thus a big freakout over nothing, let alone something that happened before he was in the picture. Trust me, you're better off without a jerk like that. Divorce sucks either way, but when you're looking for an attorney, find one who has their morals straight. Not a slimeball liar. Someone with a good reputation. That's the one who will care about your kids as well. Slimeballs only care about bending the law to suit their whims and about money. Whether you are well-spoken or not, you and your kids need and deserve better.
06/23/09
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Please i need help. Im not a great speaker. Hes awsome at convincing and has a great gift he knows how to get his way, hes a liar and he makes ppl feel bad for him and believe his lies. How could i win full custody of my children? he will try to fight me for them. I cant let him win. I just cant. I need help anyone know about divorce in ny?
06/23/09
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I was told by mother many times, that you should never tell your bf or husband who you were involved with in the past, because the past is the past, it was before them anyway. Right??? She said men are just jealous and they dont need to know what happened before them. Anyway my little immature stupid brother comes over for dinner who my husband invited for dinner (not me because i dont get along with him) and he tells my husband about this guy i hooked up with yrs. ago and my husband gets mad and acts like an immature 33 yr old baby and walks out during dinner and says "now im in your past" and texts me hrs later he wants a divorce and he will see me in court. Over something so stupid. When do men grow up? And who f..... care who i hooked up with in the past. Hes the liar and denies everything stupid that he does wrong by me. I never cheated or flirted with another man before while i was married. I never acted inapropriate while i am with him. with him though i find mysterious phone calls in his cell which he denies, porn he denies and blames on his bro, denies smoking pot, denies email with ex's and denies this inapropriate email. He will never confess he doesnt have the balls to tell me when he does something wrong. He has cheated in the past with his ex wife. Im so mad at him. He wants a divorce when i did nothing wrong to him EVER and hes the lying piece of shit. He needs to grow some balls. He plans on leaving me with a baby and a baby on the way and then says hes going to fight for them. Is he out of his mind?????
06/21/09
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Took off mad last night without even telling me he was leaving. Won't answer his phone so I can even see if he is OK. He has had recent medication problems and was even rushed to the ER incoherent one morning.
This is not the first time he has spent the night away from home. Maybe he has a girlfriend?
06/21/09
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Told me and my son that he would take us and his son out to see a new popular movie TOGETHER. He goes and takes his son separately while I'm at work and my son is asleep (he works nights) at the last minute so no one else could possibly go. What a shitty thing to do.
06/21/09
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I will remember the shitty things you are doing to us now, asshole. You are an old man. Just wait.
I paid for everything for years. You don't help at all. Now that I have temporary money issues, you swoop in like a vulture and try to kick me when I'm down and buy power. I can't wait for you to die.
06/20/09
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Fucker buys groceries and hides them for only himself.
06/19/09
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Married to an unemployed, alcoholic, porn addicted, ignorant redneck. He went fishing while I laid on a table having a biopsy for cancer. More concerned about how my illness will ruin his life. His 2 children have seen his verbal abuse, selfishness, and controlling ways and hate him. Thought I was doing the right thing sticking it out for the kids. Now I see they would have been better off without him. He threatened to make my life more of hell than it already is and I believe he would. Praying that God will help me until my children are old enough to tell a judge their wishes.
If you are considering leaving your spouse, don't wait. Get out while you still have some life left in you.
06/19/09
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wow I am so glad you are here- trust me I'll be back to vent!
06/18/09
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Jackass - I know you're not my spouse. That's for damned sure.
06/18/09
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1 sorry Jackass-
I have no idea if you are for real. Did you really read for long here? I know my husband would know right away who I am-well, maybe not.
The emotional devastation caused by being treated cruelly and thoughtlessly by the one you should be able to trust and count on.
Life is hard enough without having to continue "the battle" when you get home. Home, where you are supposed to feel safe, and loved.
All relationships have ups and downs, but these women have given, and given, and have received nothing but heartache.
I still love my husband, and he can be very sweet.
Then again, he has really let me down when I needed him the most. He has shut me out and not let me help him, kept things from me. Making me feel foolish, and useless, and heartbroken for him.
There are children involved, these are not happy homes. I know how it is growing up in a house uneasy,
everyone walking on eggs not knowing when Dad was going to be on a manic-depressive rampage of some sort.
Actions speak louder than words. Love your wife, treasure her, treat her with respect and consideration. This is your mate. Is this how you really want to live?
I always wanted to "mate for life", and to be able to totally trust someone....
I was naive, and foolish. My heart hurts, and I feel angry at him, and myself.
And, I cant help but blame myself.
06/18/09
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sorry to interupt. I found this site in my wifes comp. I don't know which complaints are hers, I guess I fit more then one and I can't stand to read anymore.All I can say is I'm sorry I'm an ass. I know you don't trust me because of all the stupid things I have done and said. I know you have gave me more chances then I deserve. I know your right when you say I never change for long. I know you loved me once upon a time and I F-ed that up so I think you just deal with me now.You might even hate me. I wish I had the guts to show you I really do love you and I've just been a thoughtless jerk, though I really never meant to hurt you. I took you for granted and now I don't know how to act any different. I wish I could make you laugh like I used to. But I'm not just an ass, I'm a chicken too. I've pushed you so far away and now we can't even talk about anything. I'm afraid you'll tell me to F-off and honestly I hate what I have done too. I do love you, you know I need you. Please don't leave me. I really am sorry. I hope you see this post and see it's me. PLEASE, Tell me you saw this apology and can forgive me for being an idiot.Please! Give me one more chance but only if you really can love me again. Or say goodbye and tell me to go live in the car if I have really already lost you. Just know I love you and I am so very sorry.
xo
06/16/09
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Things I will not put up with any more:
Cooking for the ungrateful and all the clean up myself.
Sex without real kissing.
Buying groceries for anyone but myself.
Doing all the house and yard work.
Being screamed at.
Sleeping in the same bed with someone who doesn't love me.
Enough is ENOUGH.
"What you allow, you teach"
06/16/09
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I've been married nine months and getting ready to buy a house for my husband and I. He's in school working on his masters. Two days before I go to close on the house he says he only thinks of me as his best friend and not as his wife. I bought the house anyways for myself, for my investment, everything was in my name, its something that I wanted. He went out with his "friends" the night before we were supposed to move and I was definately not invited, I've been begging him to go out with me for months, but he refuses.
He isn't staying with me, we tried counselling but since he won't talk there is nothing the counselor can do. He wonders why I'm upset and he asks me why everytime we get together I bring our problems up. Obviously its because I want to sort through them.
At least its only 9 months, we have no children, and I can take care of myself. Its sad, I don't need him in my life, I wanted him in my life and I always thought that was what love was.
He wants to be friends....I can't do that, when we are done we are DONE.
06/16/09
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Dear spouse - You will never be my husband again. We may still be legally married, but that is where it ends. You lie because it is second nature to you. You are a drama queen and then get pissed because your excuse is that you didn't say directly what you were acting out. Tutting, sighing, dirty looks, rolling your eyes, dramatic pauses before answering questions, curt replies, sarcastic comments. I hate you. When I look at you, I see how truly ugly you are on the inside. All you are is financial security. You are lazy, rude, mean, manipulative, and mentally ill. Even our marriage counselor says I should leave you. I am not the same stupid woman who married you. Even if you went back to being the way you used to be, I wouldn't want to be with you. You're so not my type. I can't wait for the day I can say good riddence to you.
06/15/09
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I'm so sick of this worthless piece of shit I'm married to.
How am I suppose to leave this ? we have three kids and now they are to old to leave and not yet old enough for me to leave
Help me lord , How am I suppose to endure 10 more years of this shit??
I wish I was dead , or he was, either fucking way at this point.
Men are scum and I will never marry again once is way more than enough. I don't want to rot anymore I used to be so alive, I'm dying in a coffin of what he thinks is love
06/15/09
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myhusbandisaliarcheater - don't take him back. Once a lying cheat, always a lying cheat. He wants you back because all he has managed to find is a bunch of diseased whores who have slept with every man they can find. He wants you back because he has likely caught something from them and/or found out that it is very expensive and a lot of work to chase women like that.
He will never be yours again, and he will always be looking for the next replacement.
You will never be able to trust him again and it is likely that he will be bringing some sort of disease or baggage you don't want home to bed.
Forget him, move on. You are better than that.
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06/15/09
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I am so glad I looked at this website..my husband, who is supposedly an upstanding member of our communtiy told me a year ago that he didn't want me anymore and left me crying in my bed with my 7 year old daughter for a 24 year old nurse I'd mentored who also has herpes (what a dumb sonofabitch). This was after 14 years of marriage and I've had men coming on to me the whole time. Remember thinking I couldn't go on with our marriage and wishing he would cheat so I could get out..be careful what you wish for.
I took a few months to date other heroic men (firefighters, homeland security agents, and jailers) and he FINALLY proclaimed that I'm the one he wants. Well, duh! These womea n weren't even remotely cute (*edit* ...I hate to do this, but no names please...it's ME who will get in trouble!!) and they were just skanky badge bunnies looking for a husband . They're pathetic and he's just as much to blame as is the reason he's sleeping alone tonight. I can respect that maybe he wanted someone else when I was dating the gorgeous man meat that I was while he was buying a 36 pack of condoms...he's really pathetic. Says he wants me and only me. Says those other women were just cheap replacements of me that were lousy in bed..because he couldn't even raise one for the ugly lame bitches...should I believe him or let him go?
06/15/09
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To LonelyLove ~
You wrote:
"June 12th was supposed to be our 10th wedding anniversary. We were supposed to go to Fiji and renew our vows.. What the fuck happened, huh? Why do I even fucking care? Why do I still have love in my heart for you, even though I try to deny it? Why do you still have a hold on me? Why did you choose me to be your wife and then fucking neglect me? Why, QC, why? I don't want to cry or feel sad over this day, but I do.. You are a waste of my time.. You are using lawyers to fight a family battle that could be settled easily. Why is your family so low priority? How did I miss this about you or did this change? Why weren't we enough, huh? I tried to make you happy and be a good wife, but I just wilted and got bitter when you put us 5th in line for your attention.. Why am I not loveable enough? What the fuck is wrong with me?
I am in love again but THIS shit still hurts.. I can run, deny, but I can't hide..My heart knows the truth..
Bastard...."
Change June 12 to October 31...10 years to going on 6 years...and take out this ONE sentence "You are using lawyers to fight a family battle that could be settled easily."...And, you wrote about me and my husband!
06/14/09
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I've been married for 2 yrs. now, and it is one crazy ride of ups and downs already. We've been together for 4 yrs. Yes I know it happened very fast, I was desperate, and in love. I just got sick of dating and random sex partners over the years. I never wanted to get married, and never wanted babies, but that all changed....i love my 5 month old, and have another on the way. I know its crazy. I just want my daughter to have a baby brother or sister to go through life with. I just want two.Sometimes though I feel like leaving my husband and never EVER getting married again. But would i want to go through life with 2 kids, divorced, and just having fun dating, and going out with my girlfriends without my husband putting his 2 cents in? He just has a bad temper, he takes meds too for that. I'm not perfect, but I'm not a liar like he is, and i am definitely not an asshole like he is. He has no friends, and his own family cant stand him. Should I rough it out and stay married,or should i be happy alone with my kids, not having to worry about the mental abuse, the judging, the lying, the name calling, the arguments(which are so loud and out and control that the neighbors call the cops on us). What should i do?
06/14/09
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Finally, a place where I belong. I have had my asshole husband for over 23 years now. Yeah, I am a bitch too, living with an asshole will only enhance that personality trait.
He wasn't so bad when we first met, I think the fact that he smoked a lot a dope then helped, but now he is no longer a pot head, and he is a total bitch!!
My kid's memories of their father are all base on his irrational behavior. One time we brought home some cheeseburgers and he acted like the world was going to end. This was 11 years into our relationship. The temper tantrum he threw went down in our family memories as one of the worse fits he ever threw over something so stupid.
Tonight I made hamburgers for dinner, he bitched because he had hamburgers at his friends house last night. I didn't know this because I was working while he was out playing around as usual. Then he got pissed because I didn't make french fries. I asked him if he bitched at his friend yesterday for not making french fries. Then he got pissed because I was being a smart ass. Fuck, I wish I was his friend and maybe I would get some respect.
The man doesn't work, he drinks beer daily, this is a replacement for weed. He nags and bitches everytime he opens his pie hole. Our oldest son wised up and moved out long ago. Our next son finally had enough of his irrational bitching and kicked his ass a few weeks ago. Now he's nicer to the son, but still bitching up a storm to me and our daughter. My daughter and I have discussed tieing him up and beating the shit out of him.
So why am I still here? Well, my mother-inlaw gave us a house free of charge. I really don't want to start paying rent now. So I guess my rent payment is putting up with his bitchy ass. I still wonder if it's worth it.
I've learned in the process that the best way to deal with his bitching is to not argue with him, let him bitch, and go on the internet and bitch about him. Just not after 10p.m. because the tapping on the keys is too loud for him!
06/14/09
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The best advice I've received from another unhappily married woman is to get ALL that you can out of them. They'll use you up and have their babies so they can leave you for someone younger. Get yours first ladies and dont feel guilty about it. Remember it was a man that came up with the term "gold digger" so we women would feel guilty for making them buy and pay for the items we deserve just for putting up with their dumb asses! No guilt here.
06/11/09
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Hello! Cudos to you for building this page. I was so pissed off anf signe don to the internet. My husband sucks, he has for years. You knoew ladies, my son grew up to know the difference and that I did not derserve his father. He calls him an asshole (well dersved too). I took care of him his whole life, felt sorry for his lazy ass. But, now that my hjealth is tampered, he has not changed or will ever show compassion. Yes, I never had a love letter or romance. At thispoint, after this guy, I don;t want to be involved in my life, ever again. men are good for a few things, but they don't add up to the emotional abuse. He lied about changing, he is so full of shittttttt!!!!!!! They never change. We should have a club, get ogether and get it out. I'll buy the first round.
06/11/09
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June 12th was supposed to be our 10th wedding anniversary. We were supposed to go to Fiji and renew our vows.. What the fuck happened, huh? Why do I even fucking care? Why do I still have love in my heart for you, even though I try to deny it? Why do you still have a hold on me? Why did you choose me to be your wife and then fucking neglect me? Why, QC, why? I don't want to cry or feel sad over this day, but I do.. You are a waste of my time.. You are using lawyers to fight a family battle that could be settled easily. Why is your family so low priority? How did I miss this about you or did this change? Why weren't we enough, huh? I tried to make you happy and be a good wife, but I just wilted and got bitter when you put us 5th in line for your attention.. Why am I not loveable enough? What the fuck is wrong with me?
I am in love again but THIS shit still hurts.. I can run, deny, but I can't hide..My heart knows the truth..
Bastard....
06/11/09
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I would rather declare bankruptcy than take money from you. The price to pay is just too high.
Fake sleeping and peeking through your eyelashes is for 5 year olds. You phony fucker. I know you are wanting me and looking at me and pretending you don't. Still punishing me for being a free-thinker, huh, stupid asshole. Go without, then, if you are so stubborn.
You really believe I will have this for my life?
06/09/09
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WHAT A FOOL AM I!!!!!! UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
JERKWAD COMES HOME FROM WORK IN TIME FOR GOLD>>AND WILL SURELY BE HOME AGAIN IN TIME FOR THE HOCKEY GAME............AND YET ISNT DOIN CRAP AROUND HERE ANYMORE>.............
IM SO CLOSE TO BEING OUTTA HERE~THIS IS NO KINDA LIFE I DONT CARE HOW MUCH $ HE MAKES...
I JUST NEED HELP, LOVE, ATTENTION, and DEF NOT A WHITE BELLY RUBBIN AGAINST ME AT NIGHT......
IM OVER THIS!
06/09/09
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My husband is a fucking retard!!!! I am a hot ass black girl with long hair and caramel skin. He is a fat pale pot bellied puerto rican. Entering into our 8th year of marriage I sit n wonder why n the hell am I with this asshole. He's rude mean and doesn't understand me at all. Sometimes I day dream about punching him in the throat. Instead of him feeling lucky to have a fox like me he has the nerve to flirt with ugly whores online. I'm ready to leave his ass, only thing stopping me is our 5yr old son. Uggghhh maybe I'll just have an affair
06/08/09
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It will soon be the five year anniversary. I kicked you out last week because you are too selfish to even realize I am five months pregnant with our second child. Sometimes I think you see my belly and you are thinking about something else or money. You and your obsession with money. You lied to me about everything and micromanage every detail of our lives. You couldn't even handle me making the money in the family and you have so many insecurity issues of how you want to compete with me, be better than me, and only make decisions in your life to make your mom proud. You abandon everyone else for your mom and forget we are sick, hurting, or abandoned by you. Mamma's boy! Even at our wedding you were hiding how more upset your were that she didn't show up than being happy that we were married. You lied and said you were but I saw it in your face with just how closed off and fake that smile was all night. You even admitted that you let everyone else have their say about our marriage except me! I am the last to know and always left out. And when I say how I feel and don't want to put up with it anymore you say, "I don't like your tone". What an asshole. You've been lying about who you've been calling all these years and where the money has been going to. Even when I catch you in that lie, you will deny it. You say you will change and I know that will never happen. Which is why...not only don't I give a shit where you live or if you see the kids again. The kids are happier with you gone. I am happier with you gone. I can't believe you even tried the old "I love you" and spent hours glowing about our lives and memories...how much the kids meant to you. How you had these great plans to make everything right. Then it was all just some booty call and you were done. Then you were surprised I threw your shit out in front of your car so you had to pick it up in order to leave. You couldn't just bounce out and come back again when you were feeling "needy". The rest of your crap will be out on the curb. Which will be a free for all for whoever drives by if you don't pick it up. Either way, I'm not letting you back in the house. And yes...you got really fat after all these years and no...your bald spot is getting worse. Bald spots that is. Sad part...I don't even think you care to be involved in either child's lives...nor even about what this child name will be after the birth. You'll be that loser dad that shows up at birthday parties pretending that he knows what is going on. You'll come with gifts and play on their emotions getting them hyped up then leaving again. For a few years they'll be nice and welcoming, then after a while...they'll really know and think you're the joke you truly are. You are really a dead beat dad who wasn't there for the kids...you just showed up for the important parts for "show" to others. And a loser husband who really...was so unhealthy and depressed that we barely had sex. You just couldn't fulfill much could you? Asshole. I hate you.
06/08/09
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Thank you, INL and Avi, for your kind words. Yeah, it was the sheep. Still haven't heard a kind word, though I did get a sanity break with a four day event. I'll have to write in other spaces later about that, no, nothing exciting. Just stopping in to prove I'm still breathing. Love to ya.
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06/06/09
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Hello all! This is my first post and after reading many of the others I see I am not alone.
Let me introduce myself: I am 40 years old, live in Mississippi, have 2 children, and have been married to my second husband for 8 long years. My first idiot and I were married for over 11 years and thank God I got out. I thought I met and married the man of my dreams (since I married the first idiot 1 yr after high school and I was entirely too young!) Unfortunately, I married a man who is completely military. Not complaining about the military, but most military wives would understand when I say he is controlling, argumentative, and is ALWAYS right. I totally and completely support our troops, don't get me wrong, but there are times when I totally want to beat the shit out of this man.
I work, cook, clean, manage the finances, and pretty much take care of everything, but I guess my "stupid ass" doesn't know what I'm doing because according to him I do it all wrong. Give me a break. When he was overseas for 18 months I took care of EVERYTHING and even managed to save money to pay off several bills and even get a nest egg to purchase him a new truck when he got home!
The two children are for the first idiot, and my current jerk complains that I don't know what I am doing and have totally screwed up as a mother.
I've quit smoking because he bitched and moaned about it--but to be honest, I really needed to stop anyway.
I've gained weight and am miserable. I have extremely low self esteem and my husband does not have sex with me because I'm not my smaller self. He is constantly dropping hints for me to lose the weight, but I feel like why? what is the use? he'll just complain that I am trying to get slimmer for someone else. (Endless cycle.)
Sorry for the bashing--there is so much more. My mother and my best friend are getting tired of hearing me bitch and complain and they tell me to leave, but I don't.
Thanks for letting me vent. Much love to all!
Fed Up Mississippi Girl
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