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Nicky Mardell Email
10/09/09

Are you parent carer or professional? parent

How did you find us? newsletter through door

County or area hertfordshire

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I'll try and be brief if I can , my son who is 11 has Down's syndrome with the inevitable learning difficulties which go with it. For years he has detested having his haircut.

My hairdresser comes to the house to cut our hair and if it wasn't for her determination and patience we wouldn't get his hair cut!
He screams, cries and kicks out, we always have to restrain him in the end.
My husband has a bad back and it's getting to the point where he can't hold him as Josh is so strong. He bears no grudge towards my hairdresser and is pleased with the 'smart haircut' at the end.

Has anyone got any words of advice they can offer as my son will only continue to get stronger as he gets older?
Nicky 



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Loretta Twine 
08/08/09

Are you parent carer or professional? Parent

How did you find us? Learning Disability Helpline site

County or area Wiltshire

Comments:
My daughter is 24, a twin (her brother fine) with Autism & severe behavoural problems & learning disabilies. I have experienced horrendous behavoural issues with her over the last year as the severity of the incidences have increased. Have been informed yesterday at a meeting that i must pay £150 for damage she has caused at the day centre during an "outburst". I was stunned, i know parents are responsible for their offsprings behaviour but as she is unable to cope at times due to the autism , i did'nt realise everytime it happens again i am penalised. I feel i earn every penny of the carers allowance with what i've had to suffer with her & now i don't know with what bill i'm going to be presented with next. She has the strength of 2-3 people & from always self harming now attacks me.Does anybody have any suggestions as to what i can do? Thanks.

Julie Telfer Email
13/06/09

Are you parent carer or professional? carer

How did you find us? via advocacy services

County or area Gwent

Comments:

Our 21 year old son has severe autism and associated sensory difficulties, profound learning disabilities (estimated at 1 year), life-threatening challenging behaviour and epilepsy.  We have fought for his right to receive services throughout his life, i.e. schooling, respite, education, safe accommodation, day services, etc; and in 2006 he was assessed for Continuing Care. 

As Christopher now comes under health and not social services jurisdiction it has been a long battle to secure a day placement and it has meant that the LHB has had to develop a service specifically for him.  Regardless of the severity of our son’s challenging behaviour, since his assessment, it has also meant that the service cannot only be made available to him on a ‘good behaviour basis’ and protective clothing has been purchased through the NHS Trust via the LHB to ensure staff safety.

Having previously had complaints upheld by the Ombudsman against The LA (for inconsistent respite) and additional complaints upheld (regarding transitional failure) against The LA, The LHB and The NHS Trust it has made me realise that there is a huge gap between health and social services departments.  There are little, if any services, available for those who present with severe challenging behaviour (who come under social services jurisdiction) and they are then denied services or have services withdrawn.  Similarly, health does not typically develop day services for its clients.  So, what of the service users whose needs are too complex for social services to meet, but are not so severe as to come under health jurisdiction?  Surely, the departments should be working together to ensure that ALL service users receive a service to which they are entitled?

 

 

 


Kuldip Gadhvi Email
18/04/09

Are you parent carer or professional? Professional

How did you find us? Google

County or area Warwickshire

Comments:
Hello all,
I found this website very useful and helped me quite a lot to implement some approaches with people I work.

I personally believe we all are Challenging at some point and all aggression calms down at one stage. Now we need to work out on Factors which may help people to calm down quicker.. Try to Think from Their level of thinking.. You'll find the best way to keep them Happy" That's it.

Thanks"
Kuldip
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