Whether you're a wife, an ex-wife, a girlfriend or fiance, chances are more than likely that you're either dealing with or have dealt with some guy's crap.
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10/24/09
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you are not stupid hes a stupid dick!!!!!
10/23/09
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OK- my husband of 7 years has been cheating on me for two years with MANY hookers... one he likes i guess b/c he called her SEVERAL TIMES. Of course while I was away working - making the $ for our family. He did nothing but sit on his ass at home... and obviously enjoy himself... never raised a dime for us.. and it was just US at that point. I actually found out about the one hooker he invited over EVERY time I was out of town.. when I was 13 weeks pregnant... after that - he continued to search for them online until my baby shower which was 4 weeks before I gave birth... Can someone tell me what a stupid f**k I am????
10/23/09
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why not let him catch you in bed with someone else.I think most men assume if they dont want us no one will.What a bunch of assholes!!!!!!
10/22/09
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I guess life is not what it seems to be. Have have been an integral part of my husbands business and I just got the shaft after coming home from a nice vacation.
1. Cheated on my while I was away in our home.
2. Sat her down next to me to present gold jewlery.
3. Sat her down next to me to give us clothes 3 sizes to big.
4. He bought her the same things he did me.
5. He asked her to call him the same things in bed.
Marriage is not sacred...he is blaming me for not being a cheerleader after working 9-12 days. I should have married a woman. They are strong, have excellent judgement, have the ability to reason, and oh are financially stable. Oops and don't demand too much of men. My friend told me yesterday...why do we have expectations when dating and none when married.
I will survive and pull myself out of the hole I was about to climb into! But then again...that's what we as women do regardless of the heartbreak, financial issues, or level of stupid crap we have to deal with.
Oh did I mention he did this a week before our anniversary!
If anyone has a tip please let me know.
10/22/09
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Just dropping by to say hi.
Hubby is still a drunk-chain-smoking-unemployed-blabber-mouth-stoner-lazy-obnoxious-childish-narcissistic-lying-asshole. Nothing new there.
He insulted my mom last week in a new way... My dad died a year ago this coming Sunday. Mom was feeling low this week and he just started getting pissy with her about how she needed to just get over it, and that this being depressed thing was getting old. I took him aside and told him to shut the hell up - he got all angry, called me a "dumb bitch" and just stood outside smoking cigs by himself in the rain for the rest of the day. Jeez - damned baby. They were married for 56 years fer crissake and he acts like her sadness is just stupid. He, of course, would never mourn anyone since he is only capable of loving himself.
I really wish this asshole would die. He is just sucking the air that could be used for something useful - like producing a good fart.
10/22/09
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I know hes messing around does he really think im that stupid?For cripes sake ,the evidence is on the computer and nude pictures of him on his phone and they were not sent to me!!!!It has ended .The only question is when I am going to let him know....
10/21/09
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he had a girl friend. yup, my sweet husband that everyone says i'm lucky to be with had a girlfriend. She says she is 18 but i think that she is younger. he says he will never do it again. he loves me blah blah blah.....
I am trying to work on things with him, but every little thing he does wrong makes me panic and think things are going back to the way things used to be. I am misreable. I don't really like him that much right now, and sometimes i think i made the wrong decision in sticking around. it's like, i had a way out of this mess when i found out about her, so why didn't i take it? He spends too much money and expects me to pay the bills with what's left. His parents are a nightmare. I have no problem with people that have more than me, but they really like to rub it in your face. My father in law is always giving us greif for not being able to buy this, or not having more money for that. He acts like he is better than us. It's a lot of pressure, and my husband acts like his dad is the greatest guy ever. (btw, if he was the greatest guy ever he would not have let his wife treat her kids the way she did.) My mother in law actually has a degree in home ecconomics. seriously, and she pick at everything. My husband just lets it happen. When I try to stand up for myself, guess what he does.....he stands up for his parents. I don't know if this is enough for a divorce, but it's enough to make working on our relationship after he cheats not worth it. maybe. I don't know. i'm pissed!
10/20/09
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I appreciate the advice and in no way did you hurt my feelings! These are all things I've been considering but just haven't got the ovaries to do. I've quit trying to argue with him, it never works. He's such a mule that he knows he's right from the beginning and won't budge an inch.
10/20/09
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I've been considering leaving again for a while...actually I've been somewhat putting plans in motion. I'm currently buying a house in just my name and I've reconnected with my family *(who I somewhat pushed away because of him)*. I'm still just scared of leaving him...some of the things he's said really scare me, especially when his brother had him convinced I was cheating on him. He's away for a construction job this week, so I've kind of decided this is his last chance to behave...last time he went away for just a few days he had "forgotten that a friend had jokingly called 411 and asked for an escort service and then called the escort service and forgot to delete it from his phone." This time he's staying two blocks from a strip club. The thing he needs to remember is that my dad got him this job..with a bunch of guys I grew up with. So we'll see if he behaves or if he just gets hammered in the hotel every night.
10/20/09
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ya I know all about the im -looking -for- work -but -bullshitting- around- the- whole- time- husband.im tired of carrying the load.I am a full time student for gods sake...quit asking me for cigarette and gas money!!!!!I dont freaking smoke and neither should you especially if you dont even have a job!!!!!!!!
10/20/09
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To discontent: thanks. It's nice to know someone is going through the same thing (although I'd rather it was neither of us). My hubby doesn't call me a screw up thought, he yells, then he's apologetic. Then he spends all day apologizing. It's like hey quit saying sorry and freakin do something about it! Grrrr...
10/20/09
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Wow Lonely Already, that is terrible! My hubby went to Iraq twice and he is a little screwey in the head. You can't go through seeing all the things they see and doing what they have to do without losing it a little. In your case it seems like he lost it a lot. I know this is a place to rant and I shouldn't be giving advice. But I hope it turns out well for all of you. It doesn't sound to me like you should be together. Don't you think it will screw up the baby more to see you two fight than to grow up between two households? If neither of you are happy together, maybe you should cut your losses, especially if the marriage was only for the baby's sake. That's not how it's supposed to work. I hope I didn't hurt your feelings. Hope you guys can work it out without hurting each other. 
10/20/09
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Okay ladies, I feel your pain on the husband having a lack of interest thing, but here's the bad part...we've been married 10 months. When we first started dating it was all sparks and fire and excitement. Now? All he wants is the occasionally quickie while talking about how much hotter it would be if I were a lesbian. After getting married I find out that the two years he was in Iraq was two years full of cheating on me while I stay at home and take care of his brothers *(feeding them, cleaning up after them, etc.)*. By the way his brothers were three years or more older than me. I didn't have friends, I didn't go out. I moved out of state to babysit his brothers. He comes home and I expect nothing but happiness...nope, just drunken rants on how when I come home from work if my dog really pisses him off I'll find her floating in the pond and finding messages to his friend that he'd like to go to Thailand with him to pick up hookers and how hot all the girls at his college are with the words, I WISH I WaSN'T ENGAGED after them. Well, just when I've worked up the courage to leave him I find out I'm pregnant from one of the nights he decides I'm actually good enough to touch. So I try to work things out for the baby. We got married while I was pregnant and did I get honeymoon sex? Nope. He drank 2 bottles of champagne and passed out watching a jennifer anniston movie while sitting in the hot tub. So considerate, right? My proposal was even more romantic...the night before leaving for Iraq he rolls over in bed holds out a ring and says "I guess we better make things official, everybody is asking when we will anyway". My husband refused to get a job so LESS THAN ONE MONTH after having my son I was forced to go to work working 50-60 hours a week so we wouldn't lose the house. I could go on for days about my "piece of work". I guess I held onto the initial romance instead of the here and now...
10/19/09
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sorry maniacal, sounds like we are married to practically the same man.I too have felt so lonely lately.all we can do is hope that it changes or die trying wish I could somehow give you some advice to make you feel better.nah!i would probably just fuck it up...he says I fuck up everything......
10/19/09
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Hello ladies. I have a good husband but his bad qualities are so frustrating that I want to throw myself out the window. I knew before we got married that eventually the fun part would wear off and we'd have to discuss his lack of trying to please me in the sack. I married him anyways because I just thought that was something he'd learn eventually. Well, he refuses to even try! I am so sexually frustrated that I contemplate leaving regularly. We talk about it, I find articles and stuff for him to read, I have rented porn, etc, etc, but he absolutely refuses to give a crap! I'm telling you I have tried everything. We started having this problem after I had the baby. I was really sensitive about my body and we hadn't done it since I was 8 months preggo, so I thought there'd be a learning curve. Nope! Ever since I had the baby he now gets off really fast, then rolls over and goes to sleep. I have lost most of the weight, and he says that he actually likes my body more now and I think I believe it, but when the sex is terrible or doesn't happen at all I start getting down on myself. He doesn't initiate sex very often, and if I do then he expects me to do all the work. When we do have sex he is so lazy. His lack of caring makes me feel so unattractive. I moved out of my home state to be with him and be a stay at home mom, but I feel more like a prisoner here. I feel ungrateful for all his hard work and how much he tries to be a good husband in other areas. But I feel like I'm missing an essetial piece of myself (not to mention my family and friends who we can't even afford to visit). I didn't sleep tonight due to the frustration and was tempted to take the car and run out, but I came on here instead. I have nowhere to go anyways.
10/17/09
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IF I WANTED TO STAY GONE ALL NIGHT HE WOULDNT BE OK SO WHY SHOULD I BE?
10/17/09
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aaaaaaaaarrrrrgh!thank you ladies for this site!MHS!!!been married for 12 yrs and it aint gettin any better. at this point I feel like he tricked me into marrying him! at the time he had a decent f/t job with benefits, had worked his way up in the same company over four years, talked about going back to school to get his social work degree, and had two kids from previous marriageS (duh! shoulda known) but spent every other weekend dutifully caring for them and seemed the picture of the "good dad" (divorced dad anyway). I was finishing nursing school and had one child from a previous relationship (o.k. I'm not perfect either, didn't say I was.) after finishing nursing school and giving birth to our son things started going south with him losing that good job. Since then, he had a few lower paying jobs but the entire paycheck gets eaten up by child support and back support from the times he wasn't working. Now, for the past few years he's been trying (and failing miserably) to run a business I bought for us with my big fat nurses paycheck. I'm tired of working full time, earning the real money, coming home to dirty dishes and laundry on the floor, making uncomfortable excuses for my "house-husband", catching him surfng late-night porn or paying waaaaay too much attention to some cutie who wouldn't even look at him if she KNEW. All that he is I gave to him and I know if I leave him he'll have nothing. And he'll make my life hell if I divorce him just for putting an end to his "I'm a succesfull businessman with a beautiful wife and happy children" fantasy. Our son is 12 and I'm waiting to escape this trickster in a way that will be least damaging to all, but in the meantime...THIS SUCKS!
10/14/09
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Well, my birthday was yesterday-nothing. Got so hurt and depressed I damn near cried myself to sleep. He just sat there looking stony-faced at me, sayig he was sorry but I know his mind was really somewhere else. He really doesn't love me. I don't know if I even care anymore. I've been reading all these articles about how to get your husband to fall in love with you again. All I can think is how stupid that is. If I wanted to freaking play games and be manipulative, I wouldn't have gotten married! Plus, is it really love if you're tricking him into it? I don't want that. I've only been married a little over 2 years and I feel really stupid about wanting to give up this early but I don't know what to do. We all know that 99.9% of the time, people don't change. Bonnie Raitt was right-I can't make you love me if you don't. It shouldn't be this way. Part of being a woman should not include protecting your heart from your own husband. I know one thing- I'm going to tell every young girl I know the TRUTH about marriage so some won't make the mistake I did. Where the hell do I go from here? I finally graduate from college in May. I think it might be time to set up a separate checking account, just in case.
10/10/09
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In no way do I want to rub anything into anyones face but, I wanted to say thank you for making me realize that I actually have a great husband. Of course he drives me crazy at times but, in General he is great. He helps cook and clean, takes boys to the park when I am too tired. Brings me breakfast in bed occasionally, Finds me incredibly attractive and loves to please me, works hard at his job so, WTF am I mad at him? Thank you ladies and I hope things get better for all of you that are unhappy!
10/10/09
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My b-day was Wednesday. Did my husband get me anything? No. In his defense, he's deployed, but he's been online almost every day leading up to my b-day. And this has happened even when he was home for it. He ended up sending a card last minute that didn't even make it on my b-day. I feel like I'm the only one that ever tries in our relationship.
10/09/09
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Woo-hoo, happy anniversary to me. No, not my wedding anniversary, the anniversary where it's now been a year since I had sex. 
I hate my husband and finally couldn't take it anymore.
There's been occasions where I've been horny and desperate enough to almost consider having sex with him.
But then I spend ten seconds around him and I'm thoroughly repulsed again.
Happy anniversary to me and my lonely you-know-what.
10/09/09
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Mind started not wanting have sex after our child was born, and that was 3 years into the marriage. He doesn't even kiss me or hold me anymore. I miss the physical touch. I'm sick of it. I have separated from him and am considering having an affair. I'm so damn horny sometimes that I feel like climbing the fucking walls. Get out and don't waste your time--it's likely not going to improve or change--that's what I thought many years ago!
10/09/09
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Yes, I do have the same problem, and I've only been married for 3 years. He never initiates, and most of the time when I do, he's not into it. It sucks that I'm wasting all this skill and libido on a man who refuses to appreciate it. I know how you feel, sister. I don't know If I could take 20 years of this crap.
10/09/09
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I don't know what the hell is wrong with my husband. We have been married for 27 years and he hasn't initiated sex in probably 20 years. We have gone for 2 years without sex. If it is initiated, it's always me. I think he's fucking asexual. Anyone else have this problem?
10/03/09
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Ok well after more than 10 years together, my boyfriend has become the most boring, unenthusiastic, predictable, whiny, complaining, pathetic, uninspired, out of shape, (gosh I'm running out of complimentary descriptions here! help me out girls!) and I'm done. It all started at his niece's wedding upstate NY; the photographer was the cutest thing you ever saw, all 32 of his years. Hot. hot hot hot. So, somehow, and I have no idea how this happened, I gave him my number; I found myself in the Ladies Room scribbling it on a paper towel and slipped it to him. Went back to dancing and having a good time; he was out on the patio with his buddy and I went and sat down. I told him I'd never done anything like that before, which is true, and he said he was flattered, blah blah blah. So I leave, go back home to LI and find a message on my machine from him from the night before. I call him, we hook up a week and a half later in front of Penn Station, go for a drink and some dinner and a nice little place, and then cab it to his apartment in Brooklyn. I had no intention of doing anything other than getting my brains screwed out. Honestly. I've got no reason to lie here girls. All I wanted to do was get laid. And that we did. It was 97 degrees in his third-floor walkup with no a/c, just a fan. But we barely felt the heat; we were making enough of our own. I never felt so good in my life. I said to myself "What the hell have I been doing for the last 10 years?!!" trying to breathe life into a dead relationship, that's what. If that's what YOU'RE doing? Stop right now. Forget it. Because I'm here to tell you that you're only wasting your time and his. Anyway, he and I never saw each other again and I'm not the least bit surprised. I didn't want to see him again. He was like a phantom that came into my life, stayed for a few hours, fulfilled his purpose, and left. OK, so fast-forward to August 13th and Craig's List rants and raves; met two of the most beautiful guys you'd ever want to meet. One lives in NY, the other about five hours away. Both funny as hell, cute as hell and I'm meeting Mr. Out of Town in two weeks for a day on the beach. No. I will not sleep with him. Just as I haven't slept with the one who lives here. Because I'm not a slut; the kid, like I said, was a one night thing that surprised me no end. I've never cheated until now. Now, I don't even care that I'm doing what I'm doing. I just need to extricate myself from this jail cell soon because I can't stand the sight of my, whatever you want to call him. I just need to word it right, at the right time, in the right place, under the right circumstances. I know a lot of you out there may be saying what a tramp, slut, whore, c--t, etc. but believe me, this whole scene has been nothing short of a miraculous surprise to me and I've never been unfaithful in my life. This is a first and has affected me in nothing but the most positive of ways. I'm here to tell you that the kid from Brooklyn set me free, and he doesn't even know it. All I know is that if any of you are stuck in a lifeless, boring relationship, get out while you can. I'm not advocating cheating; I'm urging you to allow yourselves to feel the excitement, the fullness of life and all that it has to offer when you spend your time with the right one. I'm moving out of town fairly soon and will be in the same area as the one from out of town; the one who, of the two, has absolutely stolen my heart. OK, I'm done. Be true to yourselves girls. Get out! Live!!!! Laugh!!! Have great sex and live like you've never lived before. I guarantee you'll thank me one of these days.
10/02/09
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My fiance has turned physically and emotionally abusive lately. I just can't stand how righteous he seems to feel when he is telling me that I deserve to be hit, or is screaming insults at me. I don't think he's ever been truly repentant of the times that he has shoved/pushed/thrown me, even though he "apologized" and is currently seeking anger therapy. His "apologies" mean nothing to me now; they exist, for him, simply as a quick way to get over the temporary guilt he experiences.
I know that, since we're only engaged, I could easily leave. We have separate bank accounts, and I am technically the owner of most of our stuff. But I'm hanging around because he was my hero when we were in high school,
I come from an abusive family; mostly emotional abuse, although I have had to deal with my fair share of shoving, spitting, and hair pulling from my parents. He was there for me-boosted my depressingly low self esteem, providing an escape at his place when I needed it, and basically just protecting me from their endless onslaught of hurtful words.
I feel like I've somehow ended up back where I started, maybe in an even worse situation. I've been speaking to a woman's counselor and she is extremely concerned about the speed at which his behavior has changed. She's afraid that his anger will start to escalate even further, and that my safety is in jeopardy. I'm supposed to keep 911 on speed dial, and make sure that my friends are aware of the situation and will be able to aid me.
I'm kind of in limbo right now, but I don't think the end for us is very far away.
10/01/09
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well i been married less then three months and me and my husband is split up right now because he refuses to get a job i been with him for four years before we got married and its been the worst four years of my life i know i probably should not have married him but i love him so much but i don't think he will ever change .
10/01/09
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im only 23. been married for almost 5 years. been unhappy for 5 years. no kids. im so bored. my husband is a lying pervert! i just dont love him anymore and i feel so trapped. we dont have sex because he disgusts me. when we do have sex i think about other men the whole time. i just cant freaking stand him anymore. he is such a pig. its so hard to let go but i dont want to live the rest of my life miserable like this. we just moved out of state so he could go to college. im so far from home. and i would feel like the biggest failure if i did go back because i was so excited to leave there. he is making me a man hating nun. i just dont know what to do and i have no one to talk to.
09/29/09
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i have been married a bit over a year.. 2nd marriage for both.. we are 50.. so should know what we are doing.. Granted..it has been a stressful year.. but my husband has an excuse for everything.. except the real reason.. He smokes pot all day long.. every day. I understand that the year has been tough.. his mother died.. but instead of looking to me.. he spends all morning every morning taking bong hits and looking at porn online. Then when there is time for intimacy.. "oh honey.. I'm just not interested" of course not.. he got himself off with his stupid online shit all morning. There is nothing for me but a bunch of excuses. What the hell was I thinking? My life was pretty damn good on my own. I enjoyed dating.. sex was good and frequent enough. Now I am miserable and tied to him via a 2nd mortgage
09/28/09
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If I could offer any woman advice based on my HORRIBLE, horrible experience, I'd say loud and clear.....
ladies, trust your intuition! If you suspect, there's good reason.
Run like hell, NOBODY deserves what comes next from these men.
I wish I had.
09/28/09
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My boyfriend/fiance/friend, I am so not sure what we are to each other. He asked me to marry him but that was a a month and a half ago. Still no ring and no mention of it since. He left Thursday for a car race. He called Thursday Afternoon and didn't call again until last night at 6:30. Almost four days, he said that he didn't get reception out at the track and neither could his boss. He didn't say just his bosses name he said his bosses first and last name and said he didn't get service either. The problem with his story is I woke up to a strong dream that he was making out with some long hair brunette and I was up all night with the feelings of pins and needles in my gut. In the mean time, I thought we were over. I have been literally going through all the symptoms of a break up. I don't believe him at all. I don't believe most men. I bartended in college and I saw way too much. Men truly suck.
09/27/09
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I am getting to the point to where I think I might hate my husband. I do still love him but I do not know how much more that I can take. My husband is a raging alcoholic and drug adick. And I am not any of those I hate alcohol and every kind of drug there is. He has also been changing lately he has been getting very abusive I worry all the time about pissing him off. he of course all ways says sorry and it wont happen again just do not piss me off when I have been drinking, but come on all he dose is drink he can not go with out a glass of whiskey. The only time he is sober is when he has to go blow because of him DUI and then he fills sick and is all ways shaking and for the life of him he dose not know why this happens. He is such a Dum Ass. Then he all ways tells me I am fat and need to lose weight, granted I could lose 20 pounds and I will be back to my before baby weight of 120 but am I really all that fat. Then he all ways tells me I am a stupid Ideat but a guess maybe I am, I am with him. I cant talk to any one about this because if he found out it would be my ass but you have to vent some where. Oh ya last night he told me that they reason he drinks is because he likes it and it will kill him and he would rather be dead then alive. I don't know what to do any more. All I do no is he is bring me down with him. He is also mad at me because I will not get a better paying job so I can support him. This is my second marriage but they have both sucked and he jealous of my ex husband because I had kids with him and is all ways saying that I am just trying to get back with him all of the time.
09/26/09
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Hi...I have no one to talk to...we just finished moving to a whole new country because of HIS job. Our teenage daughter is a mess because of the move. I am lonelier than ever because of the move. He works and he travels...he loves his job more than he loves me...words are cheap..action speaks louder than words. I feel trapped...I have M.S. and even though I can get around fine...who would want me? How could I support myself? Everything is a fight...he knows better...he's a control freak although he calls it "a takeover mentality". We cant talk about anything because my feelings are silly and if he really doesn't like what I'm saying, he could start punching holes in the walls and throwing stuff. He's played a major part in making our daughter treat me like an idiot..just like he does. Before this move, like always, he made all these promises and once again I fell for them..why? not because im a fool..I try to look for the good in people...but the good only seems to be there when they want something...I really feel like I am going crazy some days...the pain of living like this becomes too unbearable. After 31 years of marriage..why did I stay? and now where can I go? Thanks for letting me rant..there is no one I can be this honest with...just myself...sighs
09/26/09
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Thanks for giving me a place to vent. It's usually my best friend who listens to me, but she's out of town...so here goes. Just gotta get it off my chest. After 11 years as a stay home mom to 3 kids (one with autism)and very little life of my own, my husband has taken to hanging with his best bud from high school every single day after work and both days on the weekend while I take care of the kids and try to find fun stuff to do with them on a limited budget!!! You can only go to the park so many times. I know he's not cheating because I hear his friend's big mouth when I call, and his wife has said my hubby's there EVERYDAY. After a massive freak out over the fact my hubby hasn't done a single thing with me and then kids in 6 months, he actually spent the last 2 weeks coming home after work (not doing anything except sitting in our room watching tv, but home). Well, he relapsed and has been at Tom's for the past 3 evenings and today he's attending a big work party and "won't be home til really late, or I'll sleep there if I'm too drunk to drive." AAAAAHHHH!!!!! Now the kids are bouncing off the walls and I wanna scream. Men!!! Ugh!!!! Thanks ladies
09/26/09
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Weird about wanting the husband to die.....I felt like that in my first marriage but this time, I mean i'm not 100% happy but death is pretty extreme!
09/26/09
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Wow!! Welcome ladies!!
09/26/09
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All summer this man has been asking me to marry him. He knows I live with my boyfriend but has been so persistent. I started to become close to him as my relationship at home has come to an end but everytime I'm get close to him, he backs off and says I'm nuts. He asked me to marry him, he use to cry when I left and told me he loved me all day long. As soon as I let him in to my heart, He says things like, We're not getting any younger, weight tips and when I wanted to make love one more time he told me to "laugh it off" ofcourse I got up and left. Then he chased me out of state. Screwed with me some more and now I can't eat, I nearly vomit everytime I turn my phone back on, and I cry for no reason for days on in. (I never cry) He told me he never chased a girl until me. NOw he doesn't call. At all. Just like that with no explanations. I am so confused and disgruntled.
09/26/09
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happiness is a world full of lesbians......
09/26/09
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im so frustrated. men and women just cant seem to get along. men can be so mean
09/26/09
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why do men feel it is ok to treat their wives like crap? we should be treated like their best friend. except they all seem to treat their friends with much more respect than their own wives.
09/26/09
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stay single! life is better when you dont have to answer to anyone. just do your own thing
09/26/09
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i have a "friend" who claims he is not my boyfriend but yet he treats me like a girlfriend and has even stated that we act like boyfriend/girlfriend. He is controlling and tells me what to do, how to dress, how to act etc. but if i try to tell him something about it he doesnt listen then he is constantly looking for a girlfriend. i am in love with him and accept him for who he is even with his faults but he cannot except me and states he doesnt want a relationship with me yet he spends every weekend at my house and sleeps in my bed (no sex, he is a christian and doesnt believe in sex before marriage) but he does let me cuddle him and rub his back...no reciprocation. wow the more i write the more i realize that he is not good for me. he is using me until he finds someone better. jerkhole
09/26/09
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why bother being married if it doesnt make u happy?
09/26/09
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my husband is a controlling jerk. he watches my every move, he wants to check my email and my cell phone all the time and i think that if he is that concerned about what i am doing it is because he has something to hide.
09/26/09
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my husband sucks. he is a cheater!
09/26/09
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My husband is really not that bad, thanks! This site makes me feel better!
09/26/09
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I feel the same!
09/26/09
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I agree!
09/26/09
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it's interesting to see that i'm not the only one who has wished for my husband to die in a car accident or something. i wonder why we feel their death would be easier than divorce? it sucks that we should have to feel that way. i know part of that mind set at least in my case is the fact that he has a giant life insurance policy.
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09/24/09
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after reading many of these posts, I feel like i shouldn't be unhappy...........but then my husband is the one always reminding me how important his job is and telling me that it's OBVIOUSLY more important than mine or he wouldn't be making so much more money than I do! i think i stay because we have a child and i want him to have a house and 2 parents and whatever he wants. i don't want to struggle financially. I used to be sexully attracted to my husband but I feel like he plays constant mind games with me. He never just says how he really feels and he likes to tell me how I feel. I hate that! I'll say, "how do you know what i feel? If I tell you what I feel then I'm the one that's right because it's my feeling!" I hate when i cook dinner and tell him it's ready and he wanders in to eat when i'm almost finished....i've given up waiting for him....it just makes me angry! He does lots of projects around the house like pouring a cement slab or redoing the stairs and then tells me 'he did it for me'. I'm like, "I don't care about cement slabs, that's not for me....." Man does that piss him off! So I've started to say..."I cooked dinner for you" I mean, ours is all just a f'd up mind game and it sucks! I like many other women would be out of here today if it wasn't for my son and money!
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